I almost don't want to get involved in this conversation, but I almost feel like I have to at this point.
There is a lot of blood in the water, and I get it, but it is unnecessary.
First : I was very skeptical. I sent the guy a message, got an .. odd .. reply. After a few messages I was pretty convinced he was trying to run a con, and posted a REALLY snarky response to this thread.
Then I looked at what I posted, and deleted it.
Afterwards, I asked myself WHY I felt the needs to be publicly .. crappy .. with my opinion. And the cold hard truth of it was that I got greedy. I saw a decent deal on some tokens, that I thought wasn't going to pan out, and my ego made me cop an attitude. I reassessed where I was mentally, and approached my conversation with Jay differently.
Clarification :
Jay is a real person. I know this, because I drove 90 minutes to meet him in a game store near his house.
His tokens were real. They were even orange and green backed.
He wasn't quite what I expected, but after a few false starts we came to an agreement that we were both comfortable with.
He said he has been playing a number of years but didn't get to go to GenCon consistently until the last few years; He didn't think he would be able to go for a few years after GenCon 50, which also weighed into his decision to sell.
He was able to list off the full stats for all his and his friends builds off the top of his head. He was able to (and did) list off every ebay purchase that he made, including the seller, and the price, off the top of his head.
He had an almost encyclopedia like knowledge of the rules. All of these things were a little impressive, and once I realized *why* he was able to do these things our conversation went much smoother.
He received a lot of offers. He got several in the hour or so we spent talking. He showed me several of them as negotiation points.
I'm going to assume the car accident was real too, as he asked me to drive him home afterwards.
I'm not going to go into the particular details of our deal publicly. Anyone who has traded with me before knows that, as a general rule, I don't usually publicly talk about trades. [In the art world, if you do that, you quickly discover your clients vanish.] In this case I'm making an exception, because I'm not convinced Jay might pick up on some of the .. expected .. social interaction around such deals.
I'll say that Jay knew the value of what he had, was a persistent negotiator, but was very motivated to sell. He got more than his initial asking price. If he wants to disclose what we agreed to .. I give him permission to do so.
What Jay didn't know, is that I had reached out to several folks down in his area that I know play, to ask if they, or anyone they knew, recently 'lost' some tokens. No one had.
And I don't think a check like that, to make sure I'm not purchasing stolen goods, is paranoid or suspicious. In Maryland knowingly buying stolen goods of that value is a felony. Buying them unknowingly means you are out the money/items you exchanged for them if the real owner can reclaim them.
I've had several opportunities to buy full collections from ex-players over the last few years, and I've done this same 'network check' every time. That is just due diligence to make sure no one is getting screwed. No different than verifying that someone who trades for a group if they have the authority to trade someone else's tokens.
I used to be an industry professional responsible for making sure Japan was able to buy some of the best toy soldiers ever made.
Now I'm just an old gamer
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